Sex
remains a taboo subject despite the hype and hoopla of sexual revolution. Most
people still talk in hushed tones about this subject but sex is important.
Whether you admit it or not, it is the foundation on which the institution of
marriage rests.
Any
problem in this area and the impact is felt in all aspects of married life.
The
factors that contribute to marital satisfaction, besides sex, are age at the
time of marriage, physical attraction, compatibility of socioeconomic
backgrounds, similar goals and interests, children, and so on.
But why do some
compatible married couples experience hiccups in their sex lives?
The mystery
lies more on the outside than in the mind. This is where Vastu fits in. It is
true that Vastu Shastra does not have anything exclusive on enhancing ones sex
life, but it does provide enough inputs to make your life rock in bed.
The
first and foremost consideration for a happy sexual life is making the environment
conducive to total enjoyment. Vastu can help you achieve that.
The
Importance of Your Bedroom:
Your
bedroom is as important as the person you sleep with! The location of your
bedroom in the house does influence your sex life.
Let’s see
how:
A bedroom
to the south or south- west provides stability in a marital relationship. A
couple staying in this bedroom enjoys long- term physical attraction towards
each other that generally translates into good physical relations. The
occupants always remain in control of their lives – even their sex lives – in
this room.
South-
east, the fire corner is associated with heat and brings fiery passions to the
fore.
A couple generally desires instant sexual gratification in this bedroom.
Little wonder, this direction assures an active life between the sheets! Be
warned, though, that this direction can also make you short tempered, leading
to frequent tiffs with your spouse.
Don’t make it your permanent bedroom. So a
room in the southeast is good for only sexual activity. You must avoid
arguments with your partner and go to this room in the southeast only when you
both have only sex on your minds and nothing else.
A bedroom
to the north is ideal for young couples. Sex in this direction is not only
satisfying, but also most enjoyable. Care should be taken in arranging the bed
in this room. The headboard of the bed should not point towards the north.
A bedroom
for new couples in the northwest direction adds air to their newly awakened
sexual fires. New couples can enjoy great sex in the northwest bedroom because
wind governs this direction and provides sexual energy for those steamy
sessions. But this bedroom does not promote stay for longer periods.
A bedroom
to the West is most fertile and is a perfect prop for a satisfying love life.
According to Vaastu Shastra, there is more probability of girls being born,
than boys, in this direction. If your bedroom is not in any of these
directions, don’t worry. There are remedies to make your existing bedroom your
sex zone.
Make Your
Bedroom Your Sex Zone.
The first
step is to ensure your bedroom reflects your and your spouse’s personality and
is aligned to the needs of both. For the prerequisite for good sex is to get
into the mood, especially for women, it is important that the bedroom is
arranged accordingly. It may surprise you to know that by following the
principles of Vaastu you can make your bedroom your sex zone, irrespective of
its location.
Here’s
how:
Make your
bedroom exclusive for intimacy by getting items that remind you of work out of
sight. For example, there should be no briefcases, files, aprons, dusters, and
the like, visible in the room.
Nature
has a way to soothe and relax the mind, so bring it into your bedroom by
placing fresh flowers on the north- east side of the room. The freshness and
fragrance of flowers help in enhancing the feelings of love.
Clutter
in any form is akin to a jarring note in a carefully arranged piece of music.
Because making music in bed is your aim, never allow clothes, shoes, papers,
toiletry items, and so on to lie around in the room. Put them systematically in
their respective places. A neat and clean look enhances romantic feelings.
The head
of the bed should ideally point towards the south, even though no one expects
you to point your head towards the south during your play in bed! But ensure
the door to the bedroom is clearly visible from your bed.
Although
a mirror is not recommended in the bedroom and should always be covered when
not in use, it enhances sexual pleasure.
If there’s
a prayer corner in your bedroom, partition it out, so that you can engage in
sex without getting distracted by pious thoughts.
How can
Vastu Improve Your Sex Life? …
Sex
carries an important role in marriage therefore sexual relations between life partners
need care and improvement. The ancient sciences such as Vastu and FengShui can
greatly help in enhancing one’s sexual life.
For a
married couple their bedroom is the main place where they can freely indulge in
sexual acts. There is no doubt that a bed room for a married couple in the
southeast can bring much heat into their sexual activity and give satisfaction
to both the partners. But look at the negative side as well, this direction
belongs to the Fire element and even a little matter can blow up and cause rift
between the couple.
The
environment in the bedroom must be conducive to relaxation and sexual activity.
Avoid keeping all work related items such as computers, files and papers etc.
in this room as these will distract your attention. It is good to hang pictures
of young couples in romantic poses.
Do not
place your bed in line with the door, but the door should be visible from the
bed. Use double bed but a single mattress. Using two mattresses can lead to
differences and separation.
Avoid
hanging pictures of Gods and Goddesses or family members in married couple’s
bedroom; instead hang pictures of beautiful scenery or intimate scenes.
